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P . U . S. H

2012-02-09T02:04:00.000-08:00

P.U.S.H. = Pray Until Something Happens

The way to get real-life results in prayer is to seek God with an attitude that says, “No matter how long it takes, or whatever I have to do, I will not be denied”. This is not arrogance, it’s Godly hunger. It is not about pushing God, but about pushing yourself into God. This is not praying for the sake of praying. This is praying to see the hand of God move. This is desperate hungry praying. This is the type of prayer that gets answers.

Then He spoke a parable to them, that men always ought to pray and not lose heart, (Luke 18:1 NKJV)

Making Music — by Julie Ackerman Link

2012-02-05T08:49:00.000-08:00

On a lovely summer evening, a capacity crowd gathered in a beautiful outdoor venue for a concert by one of my college friends. It happened to be his birthday, so the emcee hinted that we might want to sing “Happy Birthday” to him. One by one, people started singing, each in a different key, each at a different tempo. As the jumble of notes and words joined together, the result was, well, less than harmonic. It wasn’t even melodious. It was in fact downright pitiful. When my friend took the stage, he gave us another chance. He didn’t give us the pitch, but he did give us a downbeat, so at least we were singing together. By the end of the song most people were somewhat close to the same key.
The noise that was supposed to be a song reminded me of a problem in a first-century church. They couldn’t agree on their leader. Some followed Paul; others Apollos (1 Cor. 3:4). The result was conflict and division (v.3). Instead of music, they were making noise. When people don’t agree on a leader, they all “sing” (I’m speaking metaphorically here) at the pace and pitch most comfortable for them.
To make beautiful music that will attract unbelievers to Jesus, all believers must follow the same leader, and that leader must be Christ.

Lord, give us wisdom. We know it’s good to follow
the example of our godly leaders, but help us not to
think so highly of them that we worship them
instead of You. Amen.
Keeping in tune with Christ keeps harmony in the church.

In the dessert =)

2012-02-05T08:34:00.000-08:00

In the Desert

Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil.
Matthew 4:1

There is no victory without a struggle. There is no breakthrough without opposition. There is no God’s way without the devil’s alternatives. It was the Spirit who led Jesus into the desert to be tested for forty days. Moses spent forty years in the desert for having murdered an Egyptian. Not until then was he mature and ready for his task.

Jesus fasted and prayed for forty days. Then Satan came forth. He came when Jesus was at His weakest. The Bible says Satan came when Jesus was hungry. To be hungry means to be weakened to the point of starvation. Yet His Spirit was strong. Jesus was tempted in spirit, soul and body. The first temptation concerned food—“Command these stones to become bread.” This was the temptation of the physical body. The second temptation concerned the will—“Throw Yourself down from the pinnacle of the temple.” This was the temptation of the soul, the temptation to take the easy way out, to work out a strategy without involving God and to stiff-necked yet claim to follow God. The third temptation concerned inner loyalty—the temptation of the spirit, the heart, to stop living for God, to swap lords along the way and to compromise in order to gain power and influence. On each of these occasions, Jesus answered Satan with a Bible verse. The only begotten Son of God responded to Satan by quoting Scripture. And Satan backed off.

There is an enormous power in the Word of God. If Jesus Himself used it, we, too, must use it. Jesus was filled with God’s Word, and whenever it was needed, the Word sprang up from His inner man. God’s Word is the sword of the Spirit, and a sword is necessary to fight off the attacks of Satan. Where Adam failed, Jesus succeeded. Where Jesus succeeded, you, too, can succeed because you are in Him and His victory is for you. The way through the desert is not the way of defeat but a journey of trials, which results in your becoming stronger than ever before. Jesus returned to Galilee in the power of the Spirit.

PRAYER
Thank You, God, that You are in every desert and that Your grace is sufficient in every wilderness. In You I have everything I need, and Your weapons enable me to ward off every attack of the enemy. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

詩92:13

2012-01-25T19:08:00.001-08:00

2012年，委身於你的教會！他們栽於耶和華的殿中，發旺在我們神的院裡。(詩92:13)。

God - the eternal one

2012-01-25T19:05:00.001-08:00

God—the Eternal One

Then Abraham planted a tamarisk tree in Beersheba, and there called on the name of the Lord, the Everlasting God.
Genesis 21:33

Eternity has always fascinated people. We instinctively know that we are created to live eternally. No one wants to die. No one wants to disappear. No one wants to be insignificant. No one wants to think of himself as a mere coincidence, a purposeless, trivial being or an animal without a soul. We know that we are created for something more, something higher. God created us in His image. He placed in each of us abilities, characteristics and qualities that long to be expressed.

The Creator placed His creative genius in us. But even more so, He created us for all eternity. He, the Eternal One, created us to live and have fellowship with Him, eternally. Every person has a deep need for fellowship. People’s endless search for relationships proves this time and time again. In its deepest sense, this longing for relationship is a need for God. Jesus says in John 17:3, “And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent.” Eternal life is not merely an endless time period but a quality of life, a deep, intimate relationship with the Eternal One. Jesus calls this abundant life.

This abundant life, or ‘zoe’, only comes from the Eternal One. From Him life flows into us when we receive Jesus Christ as our Savior and Lord. This eternal, abundant life comes from the Spirit of God who comes to dwell in our inner man when we are born again. The born again experience ushers us into supernatural fellowship, an abundant life, that endures past death and throughout all eternity. It endures forever. It is for this we have been created, and if we miss this, we miss everything, no matter what great things we might accomplish in this life. Eternity is the perpetual, eternal beginning that never ends but only increases in glory.

PRAYER
God, I praise You that I will spend all eternity with You. Let me help as many others as possible to spend eternity with you. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

The End of 2011

2011-12-31T00:24:00.000-08:00

The Final Day of the Year

I, Jesus, have sent My angel to testify to you these things in the churches. I am the Root and the Offspring of David, the Bright and Morning Star. … You crown the year with Your goodness, and Your paths drip with abundance.
Revelation 22:16-17; Psalm 65:11

Look back! See all the wonderful things the Lord has done. Add up all the blessings and you will be deeply awed. Of course problems, attacks and disappointments have occurred during the year. Of course there are areas where you have failed or where you have fallen. Welcome to humanity! But you live, breathe and, most of all, believe in Jesus. And He believes in you. Look ahead! Place the sins under the blood of Jesus. Place the disappointments there, too. Forgive everyone who has wronged you. Ask for forgiveness, and allow God to forgive and forget. Forgive yourself! Do not condemn yourself anymore, and remember that the Bible says chagrin rests in the bosom of fools (Swedish translation).

Stand up, come to the Lord and expect His goodness. A new year is waiting; it is a year of new grace and new possibilities. You will have new experiences, you will meet new people and you will see the Lord perform more miracles. You will be more sensitive and obedient to the guidance of the Spirit. Listen to Him now this final day of the year and you will hear what He is saying to the Church. You will hear the voice of the Spirit speaking to your inner man about new plans, new adventures and new possibilities for the expansion of God’s kingdom through you. During the upcoming year, you and the Lord, as covenant partners, will accomplish important, revolutionary and radical things that will be of great importance for people’s lives and salvation. Let God take you by the hand, and get started! A wonderful adventure with God is waiting for you.

PRAYER
Lord Jesus Christ, I am entering the new year with You. Thank You for the adventure that awaits. It will be wonderful to follow and serve You. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

No shadow of Death

2011-12-29T09:06:00.001-08:00

No Shadow of Death

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.
Psalm 23:4

The Bible contains many accounts of trials endured by God’s people There are accounts of miraculous rescues, of blessing and protection. David does not refer to the valley of death but the valley of the shadow of death. When death casts its shadow, we easily become paralyzed. But the Lord is there with His staff, and it comforts us.

The staff represents guidance, authority and protection. The shepherd led his flock with his staff; it gave him authority. With his staff he resisted wolves and bears and protected the sheep. The Lord’s staff comforts us in difficult situations. His comfort enables us to pass through the valleys and carry on. We must go forward, beyond our present situation. Even if we feel the chill of the valley of the shadow of death, we must remember that a shadow is not reality.

Remember that you are on your way, and when the Lord leads you, He helps you out of the valley and keeps you moving forward. Focus on the future. Expect green pastures and fresh water ahead, and realize it is the Lord’s desire and His good will to lead you there. He leads you there, not only to satisfy you, but also so you can pass His life on to others. Everything He does for you, He wants you to pass on to others. When you do, you will be refreshed and blessed and you will receive all the help you need.

PRAYER
Thank You, Lord, that You are with me in every situation. The only thing that is certain is that everything changes. And with You, change is always for the better. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Lord is my Shepherd

2011-12-28T06:45:00.001-08:00

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul; He leads me in the paths of righteousness for His name’s sake.
Psalm 23:1-3

The year is coming to a close. It has been a good year, and the Lord crowns the year with His goodness. A new year is waiting. How will it be? It depends who is allowed to decide. If the Lord is allowed to be your shepherd, if He is allowed to lead you, you will have a wonderful year. You will lack nothing. The shepherd carefully watches over His sheep. He teaches them to listen to His voice. He calls them to Himself. He searches for them if they get lost. It is His responsibility to ensure the sheep lack nothing. Sheep require protection, rest, food and water. Sheep need refreshing and guidance. The Lord offers all these things to those who allow Him to be their shepherd.

Will you sincerely allow Him to be your shepherd during the upcoming year? Will you allow Him to determine the route, the pace, the content and the company for your journey? If you allow Him to do this, you will experience His compassion, love and care like never before. No one else can lead as He can. No one else can help as He can. No one else can refresh as He can. Allow the Lord to be your shepherd, not only for the year to come but also for your whole life. His guidance will help you avoid many crises in life. Allow Him to satisfy you with His goodness and you will be strengthened, happy and free. Allow the Lord to lead you on paths of truth and righteousness and His name will be glorified, and your life filled with purpose.

PRAYER
Lord Jesus, be my shepherd, and lead me on paths of righteousness for Your name’s sake. Then everything else in my life will fall into place. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

This Christmas - in the fullness of time

2011-12-18T08:36:00.001-08:00

In the Fullness of Time

But when the fullness of the time had come, God sent forth His Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, that we might receive the adoption as sons. And because you are sons, God has sent forth the Spirit of His Son
Galatians 4:4-6

God has a time for everything. Consider a row of pots to be filled with water. When one pot is full, it is put aside and a new one is brought forth. When the time is ripe for God to intervene, the old is pushed aside to allow God’s carefully prepared plan to unfold. When the fullness of time had come, God sent forth His Son. Before the fullness of time, there was a long period of preparation. This period went all the way back to Adam and Eve, when God promised that the seed of Eve would trample the head of the serpent (Genesis 3:15).

This seed was Abraham’s seed, promised by God. This seed was also David’s son, from the tribe of Judah. The prophets spoke of Him. He’s both the glorious king who establishes the throne of David and the suffering servant of the Lord who would take our sins and sicknesses and die in our place. He would be born in Bethlehem. He would ride into Jerusalem on a donkey. He would be the Son of Man who would inherit an eternal kingdom where God cares for His people.

One prophet after another presents different aspects of the person, role and arrival of the Messiah. Isaiah says He would be born of a virgin. Hosea says He would flee to Egypt. Psalm 110 says He would be a high priest according to the order of Melchizedek. Once the prophetic picture of the Old Testament is complete, the prophets are silent. For several hundred years there was a period of social, cultural and political preparation, completed at the time when Augustus was Caesar, Quirinius was governor over Syria, and Herod was king in Judea. Finally the long period of preparation was over, and God sent His Son. The Word became flesh and dwelt among us.

PRAYER
Heavenly Father, when You want to do something exceptional, You carefully prepare. Thank You that You do everything at the right time, and when You give, You give the absolute best. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

To the ends of the earth

2011-12-10T07:41:00.001-08:00

To the Ends of the Earth

Indeed He says, “It is too small a thing that You should be My servant to raise up the tribes of Jacob, and to restore the preserved ones of Israel; I will also give You as a light to the Gentiles, that You should be my salvation to the ends of the earth.
Isaiah 49:6

When Paul preached the gospel for the Gentiles in Antioch, Pisidia, he quoted this verse from Isaiah. In Acts 13:47 he says, “For so the Lord has commanded us: ‘I have set you as a light to the Gentiles, that you should be for salvation to the ends of the earth.’ ” The promise in Isaiah 49:6 not only assures that the Messiah will restore Israel, but it also ensures that the light of His glory will reach all the Gentiles, to the ends of the earth.

This promise was not fulfilled until Jesus came. In the Scriptures Paul immediately saw that this was God’s heart for all people, not only for a single nation. Paul understood that this promise pertained to the Messiah, but he also understood that it concerned him, as well. “For so the Lord has commanded us.” Through us the Messiah will reach the ends of the earth. This means that we need to reach all people, in every nation, to the ends of the earth.

We cannot settle for less. Someone once said, “Why should we in this society hear the gospel twice when there are people who have not even heard it once?” Jesus came from heaven, sent as an ambassador, as a missionary, as an apostle, which means sent one, because He wanted to send us. Where does He want to send us? To no less than the entire world. He wants to send us to every culture, not just one. “It is too small a thing that You should be My servant to raise up the tribes of Jacob.” Too often we settle for less, but God has much more for us. The whole world belongs to us.

PRAYER
Thank You, Lord, that You came so the light could reach the whole world. Use me to spread the light to more people in more places than ever before. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

New Things waiting for me

2011-12-06T02:01:00.000-08:00

New Things Waiting for You

Behold, the former things have come to pass, and new things I declare; before they spring forth I tell you of them. … Do not remember the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing, now it shall spring forth; shall you no
Isaiah 42:9; 43:18-19

When the Lord speaks to us about the future, we can be sure that what He says will come to pass. His wonderful plans are greater than what we are capable of imagining. He continually leads us into new adventures. When something He has spoken is about to be fulfilled, He prepares for the next step. When we are in the middle of a task, it seems fresh and wonderful. But as the task nears its end, it can seem as though we have entered another season.

It is like the first day of fall after the summer. The day is clear and beautiful, but the wind is cooler. This does not mean failure or that we have missed God but just that a new season is coming. Something new is on its way. We do not always understand this, which is why the Lord asks, “Shall you not know it?” (43:19).

In these times of change and reversal, we need to be keenly sensitive to the Spirit so we are aware of what is happening. We often keep going without noticing the swing in the road. We often instinctively hold on to the old and familiar. This is why the Lord shows us new things. He makes us fix our thoughts, our enthusiasm and our commitment on that which He has revealed. His Word, revealed to us, is the new vision. It gives new life to our inner man, providing new fuel so we can run toward all the new things the Lord wants to accomplish in the future.

PRAYER
Thank you, Lord, for everything You have done. Thank You for the new things that await me. Those things will be even greater. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Jesus Be the Center w/lyrics - Israel Houghton and Micah Massey (Lead by...

2011-12-05T07:27:00.001-08:00

我的救主 - City Harvest Church Chinese Service

2011-12-05T07:27:00.000-08:00

上帝真正好

2011-11-29T08:12:00.000-08:00

住在你裡面

2011-11-29T08:07:00.000-08:00

在乾旱無水之地我渴慕你,

在曠野無人之處我尋求你,

得救在乎歸回安息,得力在乎平靜安穩,

我等候你,如鷹展翅上騰,

住在你裡面,如同枝子與葡萄樹緊緊相連,

住在你裡面,領受生命活水泉源永不枯竭

相信有愛就有奇蹟

2011-11-29T03:34:00.000-08:00

黑夜將過去　未來不再遲疑
牽起我的手　你給我勇氣
曙光漸顯明　點亮前方路
我展翅高飛　你給我信心
相信有愛　就有奇蹟
只要相信　相信就有奇蹟
揮動信心的翅膀　隨著夢想起飛
相信有愛　就有奇蹟
不輕言放棄　只要打開眼睛
手牽手一起　就不孤寂
相信有愛　就有奇蹟
雖然逆著風　你給我勇氣　飛往那佳美之地
只要相信　相信就有奇蹟
揮動信心的翅膀　隨著夢想起飛

相信有愛就有奇蹟.

2011-11-29T03:28:00.000-08:00

God's Promises

2011-11-28T20:44:00.000-08:00

There is a difference between trusting the PROMISE vs. trusting the PROMISER ... Trust God! (Rev.Kong Hee)

24/11/2011

2011-11-24T01:41:00.001-08:00

Lord, guard me from backsliding and from becoming hard-hearted. Protect me from the hatred that seeks to tear down and destroy. Let love flourish in these end times. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

忍耐到底!

2011-11-24T00:30:00.000-08:00

我忍!!

主啊我到你面前 - Lord, I Come to You - 華人讚美敬拜

2011-11-16T07:57:00.000-08:00

主，我到你面前

2011-11-16T05:01:00.000-08:00

主啊我到你面前
獻上我的今天
我的身體我的一切
獻上當作活祭
主啊我到你面前
獻上我的今天
求你更新求你潔淨
我的心思意念

# 我與你同釘十架
如今不是我活著
因我知道你是深愛我
我只為你而活

主啊我到你面前
獻上我的今天
願我一生蒙你悅納
成為你的喜悅

Be with you

2011-11-16T03:36:00.000-08:00

Take me higher, draw me deeper ~ Let there be a fire burning in my heart. A passion to do two things. Your purpose for me and compassion to others

從死裡復活

2011-11-14T08:07:00.000-08:00

神若能叫耶穌從死裡復活，祂就能為你成就所有的事！

City Harvest Church 22nd Anniversary - Be With You (Bilingual)

2011-11-08T03:08:00.000-08:00

8/11/2011

2011-11-08T02:03:00.000-08:00

雖然我們相信並禱告，但事情卻未能照我們的意思和時間成就，這時不要灰心，仍要繼續相信。

因為神應許我們若相信，祂必啟動浩大的能力來幫助我們。Amen!! =)

2011-11-08T00:12:00.000-08:00

奇蹟必會降臨.wmv

2011-11-08T00:00:00.000-08:00

奇蹟必會降臨.wmv

2011-11-07T23:59:00.000-08:00

永遠的依靠

2011-11-02T01:08:00.000-07:00

叫我抬起頭的神 ---- 讚美之泉專輯16

2011-11-01T07:45:00.000-07:00

耶和華是我的力量我的幫助

2011-11-01T07:44:00.000-07:00

耶和華是我的主,必不致動搖,

有耶和華的幫助,還要懼誰呢,

耶和華是我牧者,必不致缺乏,

有耶和華做我旌旗,必全然得勝,

耶和華是我四圍的盾牌,是我的榮耀,

又是叫我抬起頭的神,一宿雖然有哭泣,早晨我們必歡呼,

你是我的磐石我的幫助

God is waiting on the suitable time =)

2011-10-31T06:29:00.000-07:00

You may feel like your dream is gone, but start dreaming again. God has not given up on your dream and neither should you. =)

神仍要使用你

2011-10-31T00:54:00.000-07:00

神揀選你，不是因為你完美，而是因為祂了解你的潛能。別再一輩子跟自己作對，每天早上用神的贊許，勇敢地說我喜歡自己；我雖不完美，但我仍在成長。開始認識自己的優點，激勵自己的信心。如同高爾夫球，那缺陷和凹洞，不會成為你的阻礙，反而會使你飛得更高更遠。我相信並宣告，你必成為神造你的樣式，你必得著神定意要賞賜你的產業。

31/10/2011

2011-10-30T09:15:00.000-07:00

Ask and keep on asking. Knock and keep on knocking. Seek and keep on seeking. ( Luke 11:10)

Father, help me grow deeper, broader, stronger, warmer, simpler, quieter.

I Believe in Miracles =)

God in Ancient China (Part II) - Rev. Kong Hee.mp4

2011-10-30T07:31:00.000-07:00

God in Ancient China

2011-10-30T07:30:00.000-07:00

Never Let You Go

2011-10-30T06:50:00.000-07:00

每當我面對風浪

祢總在我身旁

生命福份與我分享

更深地渴望

每當有困境阻擋

祢旨意不搖晃

使我心中滿有平安

充滿無限希望

祢是我永遠的依靠

堅守信心來宣告

我真實經歷祢全能的力量

唯有祢是我永遠的依靠

堅守信心來宣告當我來全心敬拜

神蹟就在不遠前方

19/10/2011

2011-10-18T23:22:00.000-07:00

馬可福音第十一章談到，只要憑信心向神禱告祈求，就必得著!!!

=)

2011-10-16T05:52:00.000-07:00

Don’t meditate on the problem. Meditate on God's promises instead!

God doesn’t move in your life when you struggle; He moves when you pray.

With You i'll get through =) In God Nothing is Impossible !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

16/10/2011

2011-10-16T03:35:00.000-07:00

奇蹟必會降臨

14/10/2011

2011-10-14T05:50:00.000-07:00

依然爱你

13/10/2011

2011-10-12T08:46:00.000-07:00

“You must hold on,so you can do what God wants & receive what he has promised” Heb.10:36
God ~ You are so amazing!! Your words come in time =) Amen!!!!
I Believe Miracles is COMING SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

11/10/2011

2011-10-11T08:47:00.000-07:00

I wanna hold you now ~ If you can be right beside me now

* Sweet *

2011-10-11T05:20:00.000-07:00

This few months keep receiving good news, Friends are getting married, Some already pregnant, Some already Give birth. Look at their pictures.. They are all so sweet ~ Wedding Pictures, Baby photos that are awesome =) My heart melts when saw all these pictures ... So sweet ~

New Sem

2011-09-27T07:54:00.000-07:00

我把我这个学期的学业交托给袮，求你帮助我。我也把我的时间全然交托与你，在学业，家庭，及服侍上，求你帮助我，赐我智慧, 力量。我把我的生命交托与你，求你坚固我，教导我，改变我，为你活。我也把我身边的人的关系全然交托，求你赐给我一颗施给，爱人的心，，也能够与他们建立真诚，信任的关系。I Trust in You Lord all Your promises~我靠着你，我凡事都能做. I Believe miracles will happen soon, there will be a great breakthrough in my life. In You Nothing Impossible =)

14/6

2011-06-14T09:00:00.001-07:00

请别离我而去!

The Wave

2011-06-13T05:19:00.000-07:00

To surf you must turn your back to the wave. To lead you must turn your back to the crowd. (Rick Warren)

Manage things but lead people. People don't need managing. They need love, training & permission.

Words from your mouth are important !!

2011-06-13T04:59:00.000-07:00

言语就像操作被大风催逼大船的舵，是决定我们人生方向的主因，我们应当谨慎思想，妥当选择言语。

That day, i did make a big mistakes, i speak the wrong words, and now i feel bad, i've ruin the situation.

But 1 thing i wanna say actually i dont want to say that... I'm sorry!!!! Very Sorry!!! All I want is still you !!

打造神國企業~楊肅斌

2011-04-04T09:47:00.000-07:00

CHC 09 獻上我心Take All of Me

2011-04-04T09:22:00.000-07:00

願更像你Heart After You

2011-04-04T08:55:00.000-07:00

更深認識你 Mengenal Mu

2011-04-04T08:49:00.000-07:00

Amazing Grace @ City Harvest Church

2011-03-31T05:08:00.000-07:00

God Of My Forever (City Harvest Church)

2011-03-31T04:56:00.000-07:00

Human Relationship

2011-03-10T02:34:00.000-08:00

You may be in a situation with someone that you think is beyond repair, but it’s never too late. God’s love can turn it around.

March~

2011-03-05T06:40:00.000-08:00

You are equipped for every good work that God has planned for you. It's your time to shine and experience God’s victory!

幸福來敲門～相愛容易相處難

2011-02-23T00:50:00.000-08:00

幸福來敲門~優質美女養成班

2011-02-23T00:49:00.000-08:00

讚美之泉——我们呼求（GoodTV）

2011-02-21T00:20:00.000-08:00

February Lesson

2011-02-20T07:36:00.000-08:00

Leaders goal: Don't be swayed by accolades or critics. Listen, learn, & grow. The BEST is yet to come!

八种没有结果的感情（康希牧师）

2011-02-15T22:51:00.001-08:00

八种没有结果的感情

　　一、你在乎对方比较多

　　你在谈恋爱，却不确定对方的想法；你觉得你们很合适，他好象不以为然；他不在时你很想他，你不在时他好象没差别，这表示什么？

　　「二人若不同心，岂能同行呢？」(阿摩司书三章3节)有时候会有一方爱另一方较多的情形，若是在健全的感情中，会有交替的现象，两人轮流扮演追求和被追求的角色；但如果有一方总是扮演追求者，这样的感情不健全，长久下去，你会对爱饥渴，你会觉得受对方控制，你会感到愤怒、受骗、痛苦。

　　二、你爱的是对方的潜力

　　你爱的是对方的潜力，而不是对方真正的样子，你爱的是对方未来可能的样子，那他根本不是你的伴侣，而是你改造的对象。

　　我们每次作婚前辅导都会问，如果对方五十年内都不会改变，你会满意吗？如果你一直希望能改变对方，才觉得比较满意，那就不是爱，而是赌博，用双方的快乐当作赌注。

　　你跟一个人交往时，要爱和尊重对方的本相，而不是他未来的样子，你可以期望他继续成长，但你必须满意他现在的样子。

　　三、你想要帮助对方

　　你常觉得对方很可怜吗？你觉得自己有责任帮助对方振作起来吗？你会不会害怕如果离开对方，他会受不了打击？如果是，你恐怕是个「救难狂」。

　　「救难狂」不会去找一个合适的对象，而是找一个他所同情、可以帮助的对象。找一个受过创伤、脆弱、依赖、不被爱、委屈的人，你由怜生爱，他会对你心生感激，这样的感情像是一项救援任务，而不是健全、平衡的感情。

　　所以我们不鼓励弟兄辅导姐妹，或者姐妹辅导弟兄，因为有七成的人会由怜生爱。担任救援任务的人，往往是把同情误以为爱。

　　这里要牢记的关键是「尊重」，你爱的对象必须是你能够尊重的人，你必须以对方为荣，你的伴侣不要你的救援，而是要你真正了解他。

　　四、把对方当作崇拜的对象

　　年轻的女明星爱上导演、大学生爱上教授、秘书爱上老板...，爱上所崇拜的对象，这种感情很难维持正常，因为两人之间无法平等对待。

　　男女双方必须要平等对待，我不是指地位，而是态度，不能过度崇拜对方。会爱上所崇拜对象的人，通常自信心低落，他们觉得自己很糟糕。

　　耶稣说：你们要爱人如己，你若不能爱自己，怎么去爱别人？如果你过度崇拜对方，这种感情不会有结果。

　　五、你只是被对方外表吸引

　　每个人都会这样，对吗？如果你发现自己被对方的某个特质深深吸引，要问自己，若对方没有那双蓝色的大眼睛、磁性的声音...，若对方不是模特儿、不会打篮球...，我还会跟他(她)在一起吗？「艳丽是虚假的，美容是虚浮的；惟敬畏耶和华的妇女，必得称赞。」(箴卅一:30)

　　六、短暂朝夕相处的机会

　　你和对方分担某个工作，常常要一起加班，于是你觉得爱上了对方...。你去度假三周，认识一个也来度假的男人，你觉得好象坠入情网...。短暂的朝夕相处，是指在特殊情况下凑在一块，并不是常轨，这种感情不能持久，因为短时间的朝夕相处，无法使你完全了解对方的个性。

　　七、为了叛逆才选择这对象

　　父母老是跟你强调，要找个有钱的对象，偏偏你每个男朋友都是穷光蛋；从小父母就对你管教严格，偏偏你每个女朋友都很随便；从小父亲就耳提面命，传香火是最重要的事，偏偏你的女朋友不是不能生，就是不想生...。

　　如果你所选的对象，老是令父母生气，很可能你只是想叛逆，你觉得一定要证明什么来反击，当你不能控制自己的选择，你并不是真心爱对方，这段感情注定没有结果。

　　八、对方不是自由身

　　我把这点留到最后，是因为这根本不能算是感情。选择终身伴侣的第一个前提是－对方是「自由身」。

　　「自由身」就是可以自由和你交往，没有结婚、没有订婚、没有固定的交往对象、没有和别人上床、单身，只和你交往的人。

　　如果你爱上的那个男人答应会早点和另一个女人分手；或是他说他不爱那个女人，他爱的是你；或是他原来的对象接受你的存在，他们不打算分手，但他想跟你在一起一阵子；或是他刚分手，但可能破镜重圆...，这些都不是自由身。

　　别和已婚或有对象的人交往，不管是什么借口，结果都一样，你注定要心碎。别忘了，你只是接收了另一个人用剩的部分。

1 peter 2:9

2011-02-09T08:21:00.001-08:00

1 Peter 2:9
But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.

四律饒舌_李祺

2011-02-09T07:51:00.000-08:00

7/2/2011

2011-02-08T07:39:00.000-08:00

I just want an real answer from u.

I hope that ur heart thinks differently from what u've said..

Don't disappoint me again ~

Jesus changed my hopeless end into an endless hope.

2011-02-01T08:45:00.000-08:00

God's plan for your life isnt a map you see all at once but a scroll unrolled a little at a time, requiring faith.

Start From Now =)

2011-02-01T07:10:00.000-08:00

Declare God’s incredible blessings over your life. Believe that you're going to see an explosion of God’s goodness this year. Believe that you're going to experience the surpassing greatness of God’s favor. It’s going to elevate you to a level higher than you ever dreamed. Make this your declaration.

Lesson need to be learn.start from now 1/2/2011

2011-02-01T03:20:00.000-08:00

Learn to give others what they need, not what you need. Love others as you love yourself and your relationships will get better.

Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Ephesians 4:2

To be humble is to accept yourself for who you really are, being willing to change & always putting others before yourself*

Music -Rick Warren

2011-02-01T03:18:00.000-08:00

Music is God’s gift to us for expressing emotion.

Music is a miraculous medicine that can calm you down or fire you up. The greatest music draws you to God.

Leadership -Brian huston

2011-02-01T03:17:00.001-08:00

Leaders goal: Leadership is a cross you carry, a calling you steward, a gifting you value, & a way of life you accept!

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2011-01-31T08:52:00.000-08:00

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2011-01-31T08:38:00.000-08:00

爱可以再更多一点点（赞美之泉）

2011-01-31T08:10:00.000-08:00

j ^ a v e n u e

P . U . S. H

Making Music — by Julie Ackerman Link

In the dessert =)

詩92:13

God - the eternal one

The End of 2011

No shadow of Death

The Lord is my Shepherd

This Christmas - in the fullness of time

To the ends of the earth

New Things waiting for me

Jesus Be the Center w/lyrics - Israel Houghton and Micah Massey (Lead by...

我的救主 - City Harvest Church Chinese Service

上帝真正好

住在你裡面

相信有愛就有奇蹟

相信有愛就有奇蹟.

God's Promises

24/11/2011

忍耐到底!

主啊 我到你面前 - Lord, I Come to You - 華人讚美敬拜

主，我到你面前

Be with you

從死裡復活

City Harvest Church 22nd Anniversary - Be With You (Bilingual)

8/11/2011

奇蹟必會降臨.wmv

奇蹟必會降臨.wmv

永遠的依靠

叫我抬起頭的神 ---- 讚美之泉專輯16

耶和華是我的力量我的幫助

God is waiting on the suitable time =)

神仍要使用你

31/10/2011

God in Ancient China (Part II) - Rev. Kong Hee.mp4

God in Ancient China

Never Let You Go

19/10/2011

馬可福音第十一章談到，只要憑信心向神禱告祈求，就必得著!!!

=)

16/10/2011

14/10/2011

依然爱你

13/10/2011

11/10/2011

* Sweet *

New Sem

14/6

The Wave

Words from your mouth are important !!

言语就像操作被大风催逼大船的舵，是决定我们人生方向的主因，我们应当谨慎思想，妥当选择言语。

打造神國企業~楊肅斌

CHC 09 獻上我心Take All of Me

願更像你Heart After You

更深認識你 Mengenal Mu

Amazing Grace @ City Harvest Church

God Of My Forever (City Harvest Church)

Human Relationship

March~

幸福來敲門～相愛容易相處難

幸福來敲門~優質美女養成班

讚美之泉——我们呼求（GoodTV）

February Lesson

八种没有结果的感情（ 康 希牧师 ）

1 peter 2:9

四律饒舌_李祺

7/2/2011

Jesus changed my hopeless end into an endless hope.

Start From Now =)

Lesson need to be learn.start from now 1/2/2011

Learn to give others what they need, not what you need. Love others as you love yourself and your relationships will get better.

Music -Rick Warren

Leadership -Brian huston

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主啊我到你面前 - Lord, I Come to You - 華人讚美敬拜

八种没有结果的感情（康希牧师）

爱可以再更多一点点（赞美之泉）